We often hear people that are getting a divorce say that they don’t love their spouse any more – that they have drifted apart. Their drifting apart, in many cases, was not caused by something that was done, but by doing nothing to keep their relationship alive. The same can be true in our relationship with God. Sometimes the flame goes out because we do nothing to keep it burning.
Each believer must protect their intimate relationship with God and make it a priority. In the natural realm a couple must guard their marriage from outside influences and distractions. The same is true for us spiritually. We must not allow outside influences and distractions into our relationship with God. As we keep our First Love in mind we will strive to live a holy and consecrated life. A life set apart for God.
Spending time with God is NOT the same thing as spending time at church, with other believers or doing ministry work. We must have time alone with God. He desires an intimate relationship with you and that only comes as you spend time with Him – talking to Him, listening to Him, reading and studying His Word. Relationships demand time and attention – they just don’t happen. It is said that we become like the people we are around. As we spend more and more time with God, we will become more and more like Him – we will begin to take on His thoughts, standards, dreams, attitudes, behavior, and burdens. The more we seek Him, the more we will find Him. The more we will find Him, the more we will seek Him.
Your relationship, and intimacy, with God will deepen as you spend time in His Word and commune with Him in prayer. You must make a conscious decision to guard what you hear, see and do. In other words, we must choose for ourselves to protect our relationship with God by filtering out negative and unholy influences.
Psalm 101:3 NKJV
“I will set nothing wicked before my eyes; I hate the work of those who fall away; It shall not cling to me. A perverse heart shall depart from me; I will not know wickedness.”